Monday, February 24, 2025

Attitude is Everything

 


Human beings are inherently absorbent, soaking up the words, energy, and attitudes of those around them. This remarkable trait shapes our beliefs and actions—often unconsciously. When positivity surrounds us, it fuels inspiration and resilience; when negativity prevails, it erodes motivation and stifles potential.

The Power of Positivity vs. the Drain of Negativity

Negative colleagues—whom I call “dream killers” or “energy vampires”—can sap your enthusiasm, planting seeds of doubt with their focus on what’s “impossible.” Over time, their influence drags you down, leaving you frustrated and uninspired. Shiv Khera, in You Can Win, echoes this sentiment, noting that negative attitudes foster bitterness, resentment, and stress, turning individuals into liabilities for themselves and their organizations.

Contrast this with the uplift of positive, supportive team members. Their optimism is contagious, igniting a sense of purpose and strength to pursue your goals. Khera highlights that people with positive attitudes—marked by traits like confidence, humility, and high expectations—energize others, boost productivity, and foster teamwork. Research backs this up: happy employees are 12% more productive, and positivity enhances creativity, decision-making, and relationships.

Your Mind: Your Most Valuable Asset

The company you keep profoundly impacts your mindset—your most priceless possession. As Khera asserts, organizations thrive when they invest in their greatest asset: people. Leaders worldwide agree that shifting employees’ attitudes is the single most impactful change for boosting productivity, quality, and morale. A positive attitude transforms individuals into assets, while negativity wastes human potential.

Periodically evaluate your professional relationships. Are you surrounded by those who lift you up or pull you down? When possible, limit time with negative influences. But when avoidance isn’t an option—as it often isn’t—try these strategies:

  • Uncover the Why: Dig into the roots of their negativity. Are they feeling unappreciated or unsupported? Understanding is the first step to change.

  • Empower Choice: Remind them daily that while circumstances may be fixed, their attitude isn’t—they can choose positivity.

  • Encourage Optimism: Gently steer them away from defeatist language like “failure” or “impossible.”

  • Lead with Empathy: Show genuine care. A few minutes of daily connection can signal respect and concern, fostering trust and shifting perspectives.

These actions address negativity at its core, potentially turning detractors into contributors. Khera emphasizes that such shifts create a congenial atmosphere, reduce stress, and breed loyalty—benefits that ripple through teams and organizations.

The Organizational Imperative

A positive workplace isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. Companies that prioritize onboarding, open communication, recognition, and growth opportunities cultivate environments where positivity thrives. When employees feel valued, they become “fruit of all seasons,” as Khera puts it—welcome, productive, and fulfilled. Conversely, unchecked negativity spreads toxicity, lowering morale and limiting success.

I once thought associating with positive people was merely helpful. Now, I see it as essential—both personally and professionally. Surround yourself with those who inspire, and you’ll climb higher. As Khera wisely notes, “A positive attitude leads to a happy, healthy, and prosperous life.” For individuals and organizations alike, attitude is everything.

Sunday, July 6, 2014

Challenging Aspects of Modern Project Management

Modern Project Management is a well-understood discipline that can produce predictable, repeatable results.

A key challenge of Modern Project Management is the creation of realistic schedules that provide a basis for monitoring project progress for the time dimension of the project and subsequently, to implement and stick to them. Unrealistic schedule is the Project Manager's fault! One of the key reasons for the Project Manager's existence is to see if the needed end date can be met and create options to make it happen, all before project executing starts. Project Managers must know how and when to introduce multiple strategies and compress project schedules to the deadlines. Even more importantly, the Modern Project Management approach must support the aggressive schedules.

Each activity in a project is unique. A project has never happened before, and it will never happen again under the same conditions. Something is always different each time the activities of a project are repeated. Usually the variations are random in nature - for example, a part is delayed, someone is sick, a power failure occurs. These are random events that can happen, but we never are sure of when, how, and with what impact on the schedule. These random variations are the challenge for the Project Manager.

Most companies use a functional organization: managers (called functional or line managers) oversee the performance of a business function, such as accounting, engineering, or marketing. These managers set policies for their domain, are accountable for achieving functional or departmental goals, and supervise the resources that perform the function.

Project Management is considered as a discipline that is mostly an art as well as a science. When a profession needs both the soft skills and hard skills of a manager, it is the challenges related to soft skills, which become the most challenging aspect of practicing that profession successfully.

As temporary endeavors, projects don’t have resources of their own. Most of the time, the people who perform project work are obtained from functional managers in the organization. Obtaining resources that have the right skills or characteristics is usually a challenge. Some resources are simply scarce, such as a consultant who is an expert in physical and computer security issues and who is also fluent in German, Italian, and Japanese. Other resources might be more plentiful but still hard to obtain because every project uses them, such as a backhoe operator for construction projects.

After the resources are successfully acquired for a project, the next challenge is keeping those resources assigned to the tasks. Assigning people to work 12-hour days and weekends not only increases overtime costs but also leads to burnout, errors, rework, and employee turnover – none of which is a characteristic of a successful project. Conversely, assignments that leave people idle for days on end are open invitations to lose those resources to other projects. Then, when you need those people, they might still be working on their other assignments, or in the worst case, laid off.

Demanding, dictating, wresting, or wringing work out of people might deliver results at least, initially. Over the long-term, however, the project performance will deteriorate along-with Project Manager’s relationships with the team members. Leading people is a big part of a Project Manager’s job. Building good relationships is especially important in today’s business world, as team members try to juggle multiple projects in addition to day-to-day responsibilities. Team members are more responsive to project managers who get to know them and respect their expertise and time.

Another challenging aspect of Modern Project Management is the tendency of the team members to “pad” their estimates of cost and duration of project activities. Padding of estimates leads to delaying of activities unnecessarily (According to Parkinson's Law), which ultimately affects the overall project delivery and cost. Padding games usually end badly. One of the most common padding practices are when managers cut every number they receive, assuming they’re padded. Team members remember that their last estimates were cut so they thicken the padding the next time around. The final numbers end up the same, but the cycle of padding and cutting grows longer and trust drops lower. The Project Manager should provide realistic estimates and schedules with marginal padding. A trade-off between time and cost is unlikely to help, since increasing the duration of the project will increase the cost.

Another challenging aspect is not being proactive in managing risks in the projects. The practices of risk analysis and risk management in many companies are more or less limited to dealing with uncertainties and threats that may be encountered on projects after those projects have been approved. For the most part, project teams utilize risk management techniques as a means of minimizing the amount of unfavorable variance between the project’s final outcome and the targets for cost, schedule, and deliverable performance - targets that were established at the time of project approval.

There is a significantly larger potential for improving the overall approach to project management, by simply applying good risk management tools and techniques before projects are formally approved. Specifically, we can make risk analysis a key component of the project selection process. All unknowns and risks should be considered carefully, and contingency and fallback plans should be developed to recover when problems are encountered.

Another biggest challenge we’ll face in Modern Project Management is likely to come from poor communication. Many people do not communicate as effectively as they would like, and many try to avoid documentation. Effective communication and proper documentation are threads that bind the project together.

Communication is a challenge in any organization, but it’s a particular challenge when you’re working on a project. The challenges of communication are many. Mental paradigms, values, beliefs, and attitudes, for example, may restrict how the vision statement is received. People tend to filter or slant the message. Also, “pockets of resistance” exist, reflecting non-acceptance of the vision. That resistance might be covert (subtle, negative comments) or overt (vocalizing opposition). Another challenge is to cut through the layers of bureaucracy. Organizational layers may filter or alter the message, either intentionally or inadvertently.

Although communication can often seem like a time-consuming exercise, it’s hard to have too much communication, particularly when you’re working on a project that will result in a change to the organization or something very new. Preparing stakeholders for the results of the project is as important to its success as doing the tasks of the project in the first place.

This article is an effort to steer project management professionals toward a greater understanding of the challenging aspects of modern project management. Project management is a large undertaking requiring an understanding of multiple performance expectations. The issues highlighted in this article, likewise, require us to develop an equal degree of breadth.

Monday, April 30, 2012

I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.

I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. ~ Thomas Edison

That means that the person never gave up - just because it didn't work the first time doesn't mean they won't come up with a way that does work. Be persistent - Don't Quit - Don't Guve Up!. It is similar to the quote "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again."

I have seen the quote written this way: " If I find 10,000 ways something won't work, I haven't failed. I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is often a step forward."
Even the steps that were taken - looking for the one that would work - the ones that didn't work were considered a step forward - a step toward "success"!

Did you know that - "Thomas Edison Tested Over 3000 Filaments Before He Came Up With His Version of a Practical Light Bulb. As Shocking As It May Seem, This Was Not His Greatest Invention." Imagine if he had given up when the first one did not work! His persistence paid off!!!

This is something that clearly states that nothing - poor hearing or only 3 months of formal education: it was this his highly individualistic style of acquiring knowledge that eventually led him to question scores of the prevailing theories on the workings of electricity..... Approaching this complex field like a "lone eagle," he used his kaleidoscopic mind and his legendary memory, dexterity, and patience to perform whatever experiments were necessary to come up with his own related theories... As many of his contemporaries continued to indulge the popular electrical pontifications of the day, he was ever sharpening his now ingrained style of dispassionate and bold analysis.... "I accept almost nothing dealing with electricity without thoroughly testing it first." he often declared. Not surprisingly, by arming his brains with this perspective, he soon established a firm foothold in the world of practical electrical science And of course, at the dawn of the "Age Of Electric Light And Power," nothing could have better served his ultimate destiny in the field of invention...

He never gave up! Here are a couple more quotes that show that he kept trying:
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. ~ Thomas Edison

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time. ~ Thomas Edison

Friday, April 6, 2012

It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end. ~ Ernest Hemingway

I think it is both good and accurate. Back in junior high, an older woman suggested we youngsters plan not just to make it into adulthood, but make a life plan that goes all the way up to the day we expected to die, at age 70? 80? 90+? We were told to plan along the way, jobs, marriage(s), kids, houses, retirement, major goals, etc. The reason for doing the project was that not many people planned for their retirement and were left floundering. Of course life happens. I have had to take different side-steps along the way, but I can say that without that foresight, for example, I may not recognize that I am now at my "middle age." I may not have an eye on my future years if not for that suggested plan. It gives you some goals and a bearing or reminder on how you wanted to live your life. For the record, I have accomplished most of my goals and have an eye on what I still want to do after all the kids have left the nest. Not many folks my age are really looking at the back end of their life yet. They're too busy trying to retain their youth. I say let the experiences happen.

Attitude is Everything

  Human beings are inherently absorbent, soaking up the words, energy, and attitudes of those around them. This remarkable trait shapes our ...